What’s Your Self-Love Language?

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I’ve heard about our language of self love recently. Fortuitously I stumbled upon this graphic that, in my estimation, explains the different types well. 

One thing I’ve been focusing on lately: deliberately doing things that give me energy. Part of Stephen Covey’s “Sharpening Your Saw”.  These deliberate actions that help you get better, recharge you, ensure you have the energy to accomplish your goals. 

I want my life filed with vigor and joy. Seeking out what fuels my soul is critical. I don’t want to simply be drifting from exhausted night to exhausted morning. This list helps guide me regarding those actions. 
Do you find it helpful? I’d love to hear your thoughts. 

Watch “Watch This Before You Make Another Decision” on YouTube

Ah, good ol’ Gary V! I deeply appreciate his raw “get the fuck off your ass and get to work” videos. See, I dive deep into over-thinking. Churnimg through “what-ifs” is reflexive. And second guessing my choices? I’m a master at that, too. And it drives me nuts. I KNOW it’s a waste. I KNOW you can’t know how any choice would play out differently. Yet my brain churns through this nonsense. These videos are a good reminder to be vigilant against that and stop that waste of energy, that degradation of confidence. Forward! Move forward. Move, and forward. Don’t look back.

Quote of the Day: Warren Buffett

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The art of saying “no” by Warren Buffett

“The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything.”

― Warren Buffett

 

Mr. Buffett’s quote resonates with me a couple of ways.

  • It’s so easy to get caught up in busyness that we lose sight of effectiveness.
  • Focus is key. Stephen Covey phrased it as “area of influence” vs. “area of concern”. We spread our focus away from the places where we can make an impact, we lose our effectiveness.
  • A good friend of mine has a phrase “don’t step over dollars to get to nickles”. Keep your eyes on your goals, and let that determine what’s important.
  • We must spend time reminding ourselves what’s important, on where we are trying to go.
  • Lastly, life is short. Focus it on what’s important.

Watch “Seth Godin | Advice that Changed My Life” on YouTube

I just discovered Bryan Elliot’s YouTube series “Behind the Brand” with this video of Seth Godin. As I greatly admire Seth’s work, I went ahead and watched. I found it well worth my time, and feel it’s well worth yours. Overcome disappointment, and move forward.