Resisting Rage’s Allure

I try to resist 

Our culture’s lusting for rage

Focusing on light

A Monday Morning Haiku 

This new day begins

Filled with opportunity

As the daylight grows 

The Flower’s Voice

As summer begins

Plenty of sunshine and warmth

A flower’s voice heard

A Father’s Day Haiku

Father's Day Haiku June 17, 2108

 

A joyous privilege

To watch these children grow up

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Fatherhood is an amazing privilege. Watching, not just my son, but all these kids around him, grow into these interesting and amazing young men and women fills me with pride and wonder.

Sleeping Through The Night Is A Wonderful Thing 

Darkness fades to light

Though I missed this while I slept 

Blessed my restless mind 

Sleeping solidly through the night is such a wonderful thing. With the mania of modern life, it’s also somewhat rare. 

A Video Recommendation: Anything Worthwhile Takes Time

As I’m want to do, and have received a modicum of fame for, let me start with a haiku:

Such a simple phrase:

“Anything Worthwhile Takes Time”

Not the common view

I’ve long followed Ms. Millman: somewhere around 7-8 years. A long time. And, considering the modern view of time, a VERY long time. Lot’s changed over that time. Especially me. As I keep moving forward, keep learning, keep trying to be better, I become better.

Daylight’s Motion

Daylight moves slowly

Gently across the park’s grass

Dew disappearing

Awake Too Early

My relentless mind 

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The Night Moves Now

​The night moving now

It slides up, embracing me

A piano plays 

Defining “Grown Up”

I love this comic from xkcd.

It sums up a key idea I’ve been meditating on lately: that we get to define our lives. We get to choose what “success” means to us. We don’t need to be stuck in the destructive loops of our culture’s history. We can find a new way forward. That’s a key beauty of life today.

When I consider Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain’s suicides, I think that there’s something inherently wrong with our culture’s definitions about success. We need to work to define “success” so that we’re feeling fulfilled as we progress. I can’t imagine anything more miserable to achieve everything we’d dreamt of, and feeling empty and miserable.