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Some Pearls of Wisdom

Sometimes it’s hard to find perspective when things come to an end. Endings, especially ones that we aren’t in control of, come with a lot of painful emotions. I’m thinking of such things as layoffs, or deaths. I’ve found that changes/endings that are my choice are easier…somewhat. Choice provides some solace, I guess.

In those moments, I work hard to remind myself that there is a future. That things will get better. That I will heal and grow. Sometimes, though, that’s so damn hard. I need to remember to give those moments grace, too.

In this age a common behavior is to doom-scroll. The above is part of my Instagram feed which I’ve built to counteract the doom-scroll. I’m calling it “hope-scrolling”. I’m trying to remind myself daily that there is hope in the world, and that progress is still being made. I need to have those reminders. And I feel it’s too important to leave it to chance, so I’m choosing to seek out the positive, the hopeful.

Anyway, I hope you continue to feel hope, to feel driven to grow and make progress, and not descend into cynicism or despair. Are you taking any deliberate actions? How are you counteracting the doom-loop that’s modern media?

Tonight’s Haiku

the bumblebee lives
underneath the same sunlight
as the hummingbird

Today’s Haiku

spring’s forward motion
making it’s way towards summer
the bees so nimble

A morning haiku

the morning birdsong
pulling dawn’s grace to the west
we begin anew

Thinking about effectiveness

I came across this quote from Steve Jobs this morning:

“Deciding what not to do is as important as deciding what to do.” — Steve Jobs

I’ve found answering the question “what do I say no to?” the hardest. Whether it’s because I loathe disappointing people, or simply letting fascinating ideas go, saying “no” is highly challenging for me.

What about you? Does “no” flow easily of of your tongue? How do you go about de-selecting work? Oru time is limited, so it’s our focus that’s golden. How do you protect that?

Tonight’s Haiku: May 31, 2025

this rain's gentleness 
flowing over the blossoms
before the sun's grace

Ah, Good Ol’ Email Scams

close up shot of fake money

This one was sent to me today. Now, back in the day I used Dashlane, but I deleted that account years ago. That was my first clue that this was a scam. Now, let’s explore this further.

This one has a few other easy ways to see that it’s a scam. The first is the email address it was sent from. Notice, the sender is NOT Dashlane.

The second comes when you hover over the action button:

Again, nothing to do with Dashlane.

There’s no way to know if the scammers “know” I had a Dashlane account due a data breach which has been dumped on the dark web, or is just a random guess. They usually send these sorts of messages out by the thousands: a purely numbers game. But it doesn’t matter. The investment from the criminal is minimal, so they only need a few clicks to make this payoff.

In the end, be careful out there.