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Update On My Son’s Progress 6/17/19

Well, another week has passed and we’re moving forward. Braeden had 2 separate appointments at Children’s Hospital of Seattle giving us some much needed info and direction.
 
Monday he met with a Speech Language Pathologist. We found out he still has some issues with memory and word retrieval. For that, come July, he will start weekly sessions in a group of teens called Return To Learn. They focus on developing executive functioning skills (such as tools for remembering things that need to get done, as well as increasing cognitive stamina). That’s a 12 week program, after which he should be back in full form.
 
Then on Friday we went to Children’s TBI Clinic (Traumatic Brain Injury). The doctor commented that Braeden is doing remarkably well given his injury. But we still have healing to accomplish. Braeden was hoping for clearance to drive again, but she told him “no”. But we now have information about the return to driving process. She gave us information about driving rehabilitation services. Once she gives us the go ahead, we will contact them to evaluate Braeden’s fitness to drive. As you can imagine, he really misses the level of independence driving provides.
 
The clinician also told us that Braeden has to keep both feet on the ground for about 3 months – until the skull fracture heals. This means some of the items that are cleared for activities when concussion sufferers “feel up to it” are off the list. Which provides him some more frustrations.
 
School ends next Wednesday. We are trying to encourage Braeden to attend at least 1 class each day, but the issues with memory, word retrieval and focus do make school hard and unpleasant. With things like finals, it’s even more challenging. But there is end of year fun that might make school more appealing and less exhausting.
 
We want to extend a big thank you for your prayers and warm wishes, and all the support we’ve received.

An Almost Summer Haiku

Love this reddened sky

The darkness bringing cool air

Summer’s antidote

More Life Changes Coming 

I have some major changes in my career coming up. I’ll write more about this shortly. Endings, beginnings and transitions. Fear and excitement. Opportunities…

I’m in the process of reviewing, and refining, my goals and objectives. I need to pull together a vision. 

Advice and counsel will be requested and encouraged. As one of my mentors outs it: no one succeeds alone. And I’m not alone. 

The need to create: A #haiku

Must create new stuff

While honoring tradition

There’s so much to learn

Nights power rising: tonight’s #haiku

Nights power rising

Warm air freed from the cloud’s grace

Wakefulness waning

The Cusp Of Summer: A Haiku

Upon summer’s cusp

Each day the air gets warmer

Joyful, carefree hearts

Braeden Update: June 10, 2019

He’s is healing, no longer has headaches, was able to participate in his choir concert this past weekend (which was very important to him), and attended his youth group. We’ve gone out a couple times with friends, gone to a few graduation celebrations of friends, though his endurance for those is much lower than before the accident. In many ways, he looks and acts like the accident never happened.
 
On the down side: school is exhausting. He’s been able to go for a few hours a couple of days a week. He still struggles with dizziness and balance at times. Long walks are very hard. His biggest challenge right now, though, is dealing with all the limitations. Another challenge is focus. There have been several times where he’s been given some direction, which vanishes from his memory as soon as it’s done. Oddly, he remembers getting the direction, but the details escape. Part of healing the brain is mandated boredom, otherwise known as limited computer time. As a modern teen, the screen time limitations are driving him crazy. That will become easier in a few weeks once school ends and his friends are available to hang-out…curing the boredom. To add to that, taekwondo and driving are off limits until we’re given doctor’s clearance. We are deeply grateful to his grandparents who have stepped up so Sheri and I can return to work, and he doesn’t go crazy.
 
The next few weeks bring a bunch of evaluations with various specialists at Seattle’s Children’s Hospital: neurologist, speech and language specialists, and traumatic brain injury specialists. By the end of the month we expect to have a solid idea of our recovery plan and those details. Just in time for summer vacation.
 
We want to thank you for all the prayers, the kind words, visits from friends the gifts of meals. These mean the world to us and have this challenging time much easier to bear.

The Pain Of Choice

It’s so easy to spin
Tumbling over, over
Losing my focus
In this maelstrom
Of possibility

For a choice requires
Leaving opportunity
Sitting in the sun
For another to grab.
What if that one
Is better than this one?
Too much of this
Is a table full of gifts
Where nothing is opened
And all potential
Evalotates into the day’s heat

Thursday Morning

Slowly waking 

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